Saturday, March 11, 2006

Money

Earlier today, someone asked me why I had started working so fast. Why I sacrificed my youth and instead of enjoying myself like other people my age, why did I want to struggle for survival. Considering the fact that there was no pressure whatsoever on me to actually start working, let alone start my own company and then take up responsibility for quite a few others. Why work when my friends were partying? The tone, the person and the situation at that moment made me sit back and think why I really do what I do. Why was I sitting in my office at one in the morning working when I could have been in some club drinking and dancing? Is it the love of money? I needed to answer these questions for myself, decided to do it here.

I don’t consider this as a sacrifice at all. At the moment I decided to start a business at do something with myself, I wasn’t very happy with my youth per se. I was getting myself into trouble very often, the vices, wasting time. I was never short of money then, I made enough everyday trading in equity. So it defiantly wasn’t money. Do I enjoy what I do? Yes, defiantly! I never dreamt that I could keep myself this occupied, that I could do something constructive. I never imagined that I could connect people from different parts of the world, mother and son, father and daughter, husband and wife, brothers, sisters, friends, carry messages of joy, voices that spread the cheer, some spread gloom. It’s a happy feeling. Nothing like it.

I was not born rich, nor have I been brought up with a golden spoon. I remember being dropped to school on a cycle, struggling for uniform money, couldn’t afford money for school picnics. I remember the bad days, there’s this one thing that comes to mind when I think about money. My first taste of money, and dirty interest.

I was about six or seven, and my dad used to run this small shoe store here in Chennai. We were always skint, and my dad used to borrow one hundred rupees from a man who owned the next shop, about two dollars, fill gas in his bike, buy groceries for the house and give my mum some cash to spend for the house. Some weekends I would go to the shop with my dad and in the evening dad would go to that man to borrow hundred bucks. He would ask dad to meet in at a particular time at a neighborhood restaurant. I would go with dad, and that man would be sitting there. He would order a tea, an omelet and ask dad if he wanted anything, dad would refuse. He would ask me if I wanted anything, I would refuse at first, but then he would say that I had to have something so I would ask for a Pepsi or a fresh lime juice. I would see a look of disapproval on dad’s face, but I would never understand why. When the snacks were done, that man would give dad the hundred bucks he wanted, and walk away leaving dad to pay the bill of about fifteen rupees. The next morning, even before dad opened the doors of the shop that man would be standing there waiting for his hundred back. That was my first taste of money and dirty interest. I still cry at the fact that I drank those Pepsi’s.

Why do I work? Cause I enjoy what I do. I enjoy management, I treasure that sweat and effort me and my team put into the company everyday, I value all those little things I’ve learnt while I was here, I value the heritage, I value the economy. No, I don’t make money. I never carry money; I don’t see a need for it. I’m always empty handed, everything I need it paid for. I just love it, no conditions attached, and it certainly isn’t for the money. The money is just there as a means of adding and subtracting, but in the end; it’s the pleasure I get out of it that matters to me, and my future.




Who is Rich? He that is content. Who is that? Nobody

23 Comments:

Blogger Jiphanie110 said...

Money, something that can never buy real happiness..and if it could, what do you think the price would ultimately be? hmm...does happiness believe in inflation, or sales days? does happiness give senior citizen discounts, or even employee discounts...thats how you know that money can't buy happiness.

Saturday, March 11, 2006 4:15:00 AM  
Blogger GREASE said...

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Saturday, March 11, 2006 5:12:00 AM  
Anonymous Jill Paer said...

Dear Yasser,
"I love you too."

I read your blog about "your first love". I must say you exquisitely describe masochism to a tea. Do you remember when you smoked that very first cigarette a feeling of nausea? choking? coughing? discomfort? fear?...all negative feelings. But then, you smoked another and another and another until it was pure love! You couldn't live without flirting with death, bad breath, dirty ashes, yellow-stained teeth (if you don't have that...you will), etc. etc. You learned to love suffering! If I give you some advice on how to stop smoking you might hate my guts, because after all I would be threatening to take away the love of your life! Anyway, I'll risk it.

Try to suffer consciously. I mean it. Try to kill yourself mentally. How does it feel? Soffocate yourself, put cancer in your lungs, do it all day and all night long...in your mind. That way you won't have to fake and pretend that you want to live. If you really do what I'm telling you you won't have to smoke. You'll be living your death wish consciously instead of your death wish living you!

One comment on money. Costa Rica was a "poor" country when I got here. Very few people had money but we were all rich because we were content. As soon as the United States started "helping" Costa Rica to be develloped, money stepped in and everyone was miserable.

Thanks for visiting. Looking forward to hearing about your adventures in stopping smoking!--or might I say staring to smoke in your conscious mind!
Best,
Jill

Saturday, March 11, 2006 1:07:00 PM  
Blogger Alex said...

It is good that you enjoy what you do. Too many people get trapped in jobs that they hate. Money is a neccessary evil but it is hardly the be all to end all

Saturday, March 11, 2006 2:45:00 PM  
Anonymous Bhawna said...

hmm..it all depends on a person to person i guess!! i mean some ppl go enoyin their lives until they r dead doin nuthin constructive n they r happy wid that n some like to do sth of substance..which will earn some satisfaction which they cant find newhere else!! and mayb u like to work..n its not abt money! i luv workin too..damn..once i worked for free also..frnds made fun! but thn i cudnt sit idle so i worked! hee..

Saturday, March 11, 2006 11:38:00 PM  
Anonymous supriya said...

Its the hunger to work right..and the satisfaction it gives right?
u kno i wonder if this childhood incident had some kind of an a big impact on you...and thats why even though you know its not about money, this incident is there at the back of your mind, and it affected you enough to drive you to stand on your own feet.

Sunday, March 12, 2006 2:16:00 AM  
Anonymous nidhi said...

Yasser this blog brought tears in my eyes;esp those pepsis how they still hurt.. Its such a good thing that you are working and how you treat ur hardships;how they have brought positivity in ur life..
Money can never buy love or happiness but its the means for fulfillment of so many ends..
I really appreciate your attitude and its so good that you are enjoying what you are doing! So much in such a small life! *impressed*
The pay that I shall be getting at the end of my first month wont be such a huge sum but Yasser I am so happy doing what I alws wanted to..I was jittery at first but now happy with my decision that I took it at last.
Hey I too invested a neat sum in shares but it went defunct..I m in loss..trading horrible!
I faced lots in earlier life and even later..lack of money restriced my going to Delhi and take coaching for my IAS so that way its vital..money makes it possible for me to buy books & with my earnings I plan to splurge on a laptop..wont that be nice Yasser?

take care
nidhi
P.S. I went on & on with my comment..*sheepish m feeling*

Sunday, March 12, 2006 8:06:00 AM  
Blogger blow said...

it'a great that you love what you do.. not everyone's that lucky! :)

Sunday, March 12, 2006 2:13:00 PM  
Anonymous Raje said...

hi....
hey come on...hmm money is the root for evil...but still v need money to satisfy our basic needs...u luv what u do..tats more important...leave the rest...
Raje

Sunday, March 12, 2006 8:45:00 PM  
Blogger Monte White - My World said...

My father, a simple man, once told me that "if you can make money doing what you love, then you are ahead of the game".
He also went on to say that "a job doesn't define a man. It is what he does for the other hours in his day". Of course, these things he says to me after he is retired. Go figure...

Sunday, March 12, 2006 10:12:00 PM  
Blogger Shweta said...

Hey thnx..
well i kno there r lot of ppl who work n study hand in hand n i appreciate u r 1 of the kind. however, i was spending almost than 14hrs a day at my job,4-5hrs doing home chores(i wasn't staying with in-laws then) n 5-6 hrs in sleeping.. so tell me where's the time to study? so all i say is diff ppl may hv diff circumstances n choices thus made r diff as well.
cheers :)
http://spaces.msn.com/shweta-jain/

Sunday, March 12, 2006 11:52:00 PM  
Blogger Andre said...

Another brilliant post.

Although being "poor" describes me perfectly, I'm starting to realize that wealth doesn't always produce that certain sense of joy. I think that it has something to do with the fact that people really aren't that good at figuring out what to do with the money once they get it. I think that people usually overestimate the amount of long-term pleasure they'll get from a given object.

Oddly enough, there are cats out there who actually make themselves more depressed after they come across a little $$$.

But, seeing how poor I am, I can only speculate why that is...

Monday, March 13, 2006 3:32:00 AM  
Blogger _Nashty_ said...

hmm...
Being born and raised near the 21st century in Singapore, i have never quite experienced a childhood like yours.. Many Singaporean kids are brought up unexposed to real things like hardships..

very enlightening to read about India.

Monday, March 13, 2006 9:34:00 AM  
Blogger S.Aksah said...

borrow yesterday and come to collect today?? wow.. I wonder at what rate!

Monday, March 13, 2006 11:07:00 AM  
Anonymous vauuda said...

Hi,
At this young age you have had to go thru a whole lot of different experiences.

All your exteriences and the way you narrate make it very interesting reading material. The fact that they are from your life make it even more so.......You compile them and write a book...think about it
At an age when boys (you still are that young....to be called a boy....)think of partying etc you have had to grow up and start making money ...Bravo..
I really apreciate it....also feel a little sad wondering if you have lost out on your childhood a little early in life.
My son is about your age and I am going to quote your example and and ask him to read your blogs.
Have fun while earning !
vasuda

Monday, March 13, 2006 11:27:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

the comment you posted about mother teresa to jitender had come in my comment box...you may want to resend it to him....just thought I would let you know
vasuda

Monday, March 13, 2006 11:30:00 AM  
Blogger Encarna said...

Man...I feel so bad about this at times. I'm not rich or poor. I'm "middleclass" & yet I have very little value for money..I still treat my salary like pocket money & have no savings or accounting for where it all goes. It's something I need to take a closer look at coz I don't treat my money with respect....
Shit...u got me feeling guilty here..

Monday, March 13, 2006 12:26:00 PM  
Blogger punjabi said...

Hi Yaseer,
how r u dost, hows life going on, well i feel so good and different reading this post of your, very well written, you know i could see my self somewhere in these words, in my last post i said life sucks, but its not always true and i am knda agree to it after reading your blog, happiness, love and bond with the family doesnt some with money or materials, its comes from the heart, and i am sure some like you must have got something real good inside you, i wish if i could meet you some day but i guess this fcukin boundaries wont let us do so now, anyways that guy who used to give you dad 100 bucks wasnt a gud one however he helped your dad when he needed that money the most, and i think this is what we called fcukin society and people, no1 wud do any gud to u if he wont get a dollar for penny ... hatts of to you.. Saurabh

Monday, March 13, 2006 2:02:00 PM  
Anonymous verbal_rhapsody said...

Hey...
I always think of money as something that shud be available in quantities that allow you to not think about it all the time. It shud be available in an amount tht fulfills neccisities in basal parameters atleast, and because everyone's definition of 'necessity' is different, we have this huge money making generation. What I like about you working at 19 ( which i still cant believe :P) after reading this post is that you are doing it for two things.....a) coz u said you had been wasting yourself and didnt want to do it anymore and b) tht you really like what you are doing....
Its great to realise a thing tht gives you happiness, irrespective of agen then, you must go ahead and do it....
I find myself respecting you.....for your choices and your passion.
= ),
......ekta.

Monday, March 13, 2006 6:41:00 PM  
Blogger L.A.tentIntent said...

Interesting story of your father and you. I want to hear more. (Or read more, lol)

Monday, March 13, 2006 7:26:00 PM  
Blogger Neha said...

I think the most important thing is to be happy with what u do!if u enjoy working, u won't miss teh clubbing and partying.. but if u don't then u'll want to do anything but work..

people often ask me, why did i leave IT to go into law..i cud've been earning much more there.. but well what wud i do with the money if i wudnt b happy..

Monday, March 13, 2006 11:23:00 PM  
Anonymous supriya said...

yeah maybe ur right, thats precisely the one thing am horrible at, and probably havent even learnt the art!
(yeah am gonna have a tough time smooth talking, its just not my thing) :(

Tuesday, March 14, 2006 12:33:00 AM  
Anonymous pixie said...

who indeed is rich then??
not me no sirreee....
"i got my eggs ,and my pancakes too
i got maple syrup everything but you.."
jewel
i guess it doesnt really count what you've got out there...its what you got in here *points to the heart* that matters..
and your happy with the work...then you have it made...

Thursday, March 16, 2006 1:27:00 AM  

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