Tagged

I’ve been tagged by Isha and when I saw that, I was nearly cursing her, But I couldn’t, the sweet thing that she is!

So here is what Isha wanted me to do.



1. Come up with 8 different points of your perfect lover.
2. Mention the sex of the target.
3. Tag 8 victims to join this game and leave a comment on their comments saying they’ve been tagged.
4. If tagged the 2nd time, there’s no need to post again

So here we go, the sex of the target is female and no, the target is not just sex!

Firstly, she needs to be understanding. She has to accept the fact that I have a lot of stuff that happens with me everyday, and I maynot be around all the time, but she will still be top priority, whereever I am, whoever I am with and whatever im doing.

Secondly, she would have to stick by her own principals and ideologies. I have learnt over the years that I am different, and people ive been with either strongly oppose my way of thinking and my oppinions or let their own principals down to be in agreement with me. I’m at a stage where I need to hear a ‘no’ if you think it’s a ‘no’ and a ‘yes’ if you really agree with me.

Thirdly, an intelectual will help. Not really the brainy-geeky type, though that isnt too bad either, but someone who will be able to have a proper conversation or debate on anything, ranging from the economy or poverty in africa or politics or fashion, basically anything under the sun.

Fourth would be simplicity. Someone who is simple, but that definatly gives a different appeal all togeather. No High Heeled barbie doll with a lot of mothly spending on makeup and the like! A little bit is alright, but just not someone who will overdo it. Same with jewellry and other accessories, they need to be at a bare minimum.

Fifth would experimentation. She should be prepared for doing the wild stuff. A walk around the city late at night, or maybe a sudden road trip to some unknown village, a meal at some roadside eatery, or just decide to fly to paris for a night. Experimentation of all sorts, be it with food you eat, the way you cook, the way you dress, what you do with your money, just about everything. Just don’t follow the norm everytime.

Sixth, she needs another passion, another love.No, not another guy, but something else. Like art, or her work, or the movies or babies! Just something that will keep her company and will make sure shes having a good time when Im not around. She could probably get me interested in it as well.

Last but one, she needs to love me unconditionally. I am not Mr.Right, and I don’t think I ever will be, I have my positives and lot more negatives, but she has to like me inspite of all the negatives. Just love me for what I am and who I am.Pure Unconditional Love.

Finnaly, she needs to be as close to home as possible.I’ve learnt from experiece that long distance really doesn’t work. I need to have that someone close to me, so I can share a hug and a cuddle every so often, hold hands , make each other cozy , wipe those tears away when needbe.


A long list, and I probably know someone who matches that entire list as well! Go for her Yasser! But then again, ive been trying to ask her out a good few months now, but wheres the courage gone?

But now is the fun part..tagging eight other people! So here you go…

Supriya , Vishnu , Andre , Lakshmi , Nidhi , Laila , Raje , Tricha




Love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction.